(((VenusHalley))) - I think those are important, deep questions. In the Q&A section we get many young people who are graduating high school or in university/college who ask themselves these very questions. They also feel intimidated by the whole 'where do I belong and what am I going to do with my life' thoughts. It's most intense for young men because they perceive themselves as bread winners, but it also happens to young women who perceive themselves as very independent - like you.

At this age it a 'transition time' in most young peoples lives. They go from being dependent on their parents in high school to making important decisions about what kind of job, relationships, possibility of ever having kids etc, etc. All these questions and possibilities can seem over whelming at times. If you're having doubts academically then maybe speaking to a career or school counselor would be good. It's normal to have these questions / doubts and you can decide if they need serious consideration. Sending good vibes your way.