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Originally Posted by WikidPissah
I get it.  I stayed with the last guy for 3 years...but the exorcism thing kept coming up no matter how many times I said it bugged me. The other few were just no-go's pretty quickly, within a few months. The current guy has 7 months on him...so I do see a good fit, and I am getting there, I am beginning to trust. Just not enough to confront him on things yet.  |
Perhaps one thing to consider is this need not be a confrontation at all, but rather a
conversation in which you both come to some sort of resolution together.
I mean he's bound to be embarrassed (I know I would be) and you're confused and upset.
But it sounds like something you two need to talk about.
If it were me, I wouldn't let this "sit there", again, for me, this could fester into something quite nasty.
I would try to honest and open, even angry, but not accusatory, because I'm sure that last thing he would have wanted was this very personal thing spewed all over his client list
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I think you're definitely entitled to having a say here.