Marriage counseling was a waste of time and money for both of us.

My husband has no clue why he has no sex drive, but also doesn't really try very hard to figure it out.

If I don't know what's wrong, how do I fix it?

He is fully capable of having sex, yet he just WON'T. The constant rejection is what gets me the most.

It's one thing if your husband is in an accident and paralyzed and physically CANNOT have sex. It's quite another when he just plain won't and won't even tell you why.

I know, none of this gives me any right to step out, but I haven't had sex in over 18 months and my brain just keeps going there. If I knew how to shut off my sex drive, FOREVER, then I would.