I think that the most important thing is that you are SAFE. Thank god for that. I am not certain but I believe that if your T believes that you are at risk of harming yourself or someone else she reserves the right to tell someone. I am just not sure if your husband is included in that ir not. I think it might be more geared towards ERs, 911, parents, (if still a minor) child sevices, (if you have kids) and the police. Like I said I am no expert on the matter. I am just glad that you are safe. Perhaps your T thought that you were so serious that you wouldn't have time to tell your husband yourself or would choose not to...I understand your wodering though, Maybe bring it up with T at your next session. Say you aren't mad, but you are just curious about what the boundaries and exceptions for confdentiality around suicide. Just a thought, Take care of yourself!