Have you tried to turn it around and look at it from the T's perspective? What would you have done, both as a human and as a professional? Sometimes we put our T's in tough situations where they have to make tough choices. I don't like the hospital either, but I'm glad that you are safe. Perhaps you could talk to your T about how you would like it handled if something similar occurs in the future. Just my thoughts...I know I've put people in tough situations where they have to choose between keeping me safe and breaking my trust.