Yes, but that's just it. Can it be healed? What if we were used to living in fear and chaos? What if we were taught that we weren't good enough? Not worthy our parents love or care? ..... It seems like it's going to take a lot of work. And with this depression, that I have no control over, it seems overwhelming to deal with and get over this. .... Altho, your words make sense. I just doubt if it's possible or too big a part of me, my unconsciousness....? .... There's more to it than I can write about here... guess we're just giving pieces of ourselves... afraid.