Bless your heart ~ I know how you feel -- invisible. I too feel invisible lots of times. Your family pulls you in 3 different directions, but when YOU are having a problem, no one is there. They're either too busy, or aren't at home, or something. So there you sit -- all alone. No support, no one to talk to -- nothing. At least not until the next time someone needs your help! I guess that's when we're going to have to say NO. Take care of it yourself! You're all grown up and haired over -- YOU figure it out!!!

Sometimes tough love is the only way to go. Besides, if we don't make them do things themselves, we're going to be stretched to the limit the rest of our lives. And I don't know about you, but I'm getting TIRED of taking care of everyone else. Maybe it sounds like "sour grapes." So what?? All I know is that I've had enough of solving everyone elses' problems!!! There are times I can't solve my own!! LOL Best of luck and God bless. Hugs, Lee