let me take this a step further....Is it ok to wish that your mother weren't in your life at all? As long as I can remember, she's been venomous, controlliing, overbearing.....
And now that she's moved away, alot of ppl are actually getting to know ME without mother's commentary....I like this independence...I like not having her around.... that's the truth.....so why do I feel guilty?
grace