me too...I've thought about it alot...and on a purely logical level, I'm very cognizant of how much nicer life is without her so close....but she initially moved because of her violent disapproval of me...NOW...she's unhappy and whining about wanting to move back....my reaction has been purely panic.....I didn't even know that I would reflexively be so threatened....."Remember that line in "Terms of Endearment"?....."it sure would be nice to have a mother that somebody liked...."
grace