Peaches, do you think that you will be able to accept that you aren't going to have a healthy relationship with your parents because they are not capable of it?
Yes, building relationships takes time and work (because we have to figure out what isn't working). I have had to do this and still work on it. I'm glad that you are going to go to that meal!
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........
I'm an ISFJ
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