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Old Mar 28, 2011, 01:43 PM
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Originally Posted by egoalien View Post
Sounds so familiar - except for the part "hate you". We haven't gone there (yet). Usually it's just "I suck" and "I hate myself and you know it". Both parties do that in our household... as eventually my partner ends up hating herself for having been an arse about me being a lazy arse...
But the pattern repeats and I could easily put myself in the pants of both players.
the i hate you comes out, in all honesty....i don't hate him...I'm giving him permission and a reason to leave...because i don't think he deserves it... I want him to leave because i say i hate him...not because I'm not worth loving....i dunno if that makes sence.
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