I was just diagnosed with BPD last week...and just finished talking with my gf about how obsessed I am. Reading everything I can, working on workbooks.....i even spend over $100 at amazon just to get more books. I guess I am "trying on" the diagnosis - is this me? Is this not me? Ahhhhhhhh! I hear you...on one hand there is a feelimg of community, on the other....i need to do other things with my time.