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Catlovers,
I am not sure you are still looking for ideas.
I am in somewhat of a similar situation to you, in that there is and isn't body time for each one and there is a really little fearful one that cries on occasion, even today.
It was when I really turned to her (in a manner of speaking) today and said inwardly that I hear her. She seemed unconsolable until I reassured her (again inwardly) that I would not make her take on doing what 'I' the adult was supposed to do (in this case be brave/courageous and strong). She did want a hug and comfort then too. It was rather hard to do but I had brought a pink dragon (handsize) stuffy with me, so that helped, somewhat.
It seems acknowledgment of her is important and will continue to be for sometime to come.
All the best to you.
PS is that really songbird and daisy, there?
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