i am not sure, he grew out of it, or it just dissipated.... not sure... i was raped too at age 21 and that caused me to have more frequent accidents after it happened, i think cause i had night terrors of the rape happening. and using those muscles... yea.... But yea, T also said it is not AS common in child physical and emotional abuse, but just that it was more common in those who were CSA.... so its possible just like with you and me. in fact though my T kept asking me if i really had been CSA cause i had all the signs of it. but theres no memory in my head of it happening. so its jsut from the physical and emotional abuse. also, my dad used to be really strict on me leaving my room after 10pm when i was a child, cause he needed sleep for his job. so after 10pm i could not go out of my room to the bathroom to pee. it made me worried about having to go, and not being able to. so i guess there was a lot of attention and focus on my bladder. enough to manifest itself in bedwetting. i guess i have many factors that caused me to bedwet...