Pornography destroys relationships. I could write for hours about this (how and why). My husband had (possibly still has) a pornography addiction that has ruined our lives and our relationship. Its to the point where he cannot maintain an erection during sex now (when we rarely have it) and I go into a panic attack with the memories of what his porn habits did to us. This has been a nightmare. Pornography destroys intimacy and destroys trust. It is objectifying to women and demeaning to all parties involved. I can say without a doubt, it was easier being in a relationship with my alcoholic ex than it is with my current partner (because of the porn). My heart goes out to all women and men who are in relationships with people who are addicted or obsessed with pornography. I feel your pain. <<<hugs>>> and love