I had a problem with bedwetting as well until 9 or 10, like krisakira. Once I had a bad accident right in class (I was in 4th grade), it was pretty humiliating. I only got around to telling T about this incident recently. I think it was the severe anxiety I had as a kid, I was already shy so that made me doubly susceptible to any kind of trauma. I never was abused though. I haven't done it since I was 10 though, so almost 20 years. I would never judge anyone or think less of them if it happened to them in adulthood. I used to beat myself up about it a lot because it was something that's "supposed" to only happen to the very young and very old.