Pally - I am 100% on your side and agree with you. I do think something is going on otherwise he wouldnt be going into such trouble to keep everything a "secret" especially if he was open before. If he was always paranoid and private from the beginning, I'd completely understand his behavior but the fact that he changed from open and honest to protective and secretive that is a HUGE red flag. I'd encourage you to stand your ground on this one. Doesn't he realize that he is destroying the trust that you guys have? Once trust is destroyed, it's near impossible to obtain again. I hope he knows what he is doing. If he is innocent and being stubborn, then that is just immature on his part (he needs to consider your feelings). If he is guilty of some wrong doings, then he needs to stop and decide what he wants. Best of luck to you. ((((hugs))))