Dear Onelessbp,
Please check this website out, for it has been of great help and a source of light to me and my inability to forgive.... I seek to forgive not for the offenders sake but for my own health and peace of mind.
My therapist recommended the RF Book and 13 Step CD to me - to use in between my visits with her when I needed a little extra help (when the why was unknown) and it has been a life saver to me ever since I found them...
LoVe,
Rhapsody -
WEBSITE LINK:
http://www.radicalforgiveness.com/