I have to admit, I have been with my recent T for 7 mos and I have no clue which approach he has...just that it is working, when all others have failed. There are several reasons for me to walk away, but there is this "connection" thing that keeps me here. I'm definitely not dependent, but I feel like he "gets" me. I will be sure to ask his method, although thinking about it, I think it to be mixed.