This is as sad a post as any. Why? Because you trusted him, and now who knows what will happen. I'm not saying he's a bad guy, just that he, for some reason, used your love for him to further his own selfish needs. Maybe it was a reaction to other stresses at work or whatever, but it seems like he avoided commitments to you and jollied himself.

I hope things work out for you. I don't know what else to say.Good luck.