i do not have anything nice to say about this man..he is not thoughtful,not loving,not caring,not appreciative,not respectful...he doesnt want to lose you because of how much you do for him..he is having his cake and eating it too...you deserve much better..it is hard to leave but it will be more painful to stay..the earlier you leave this relationship the easier it will be to heal...i wish you all the best and all the love you deserve..((hugs))