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Mar 30, 2011, 05:24 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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"Can't Stop" is right. It doesn't really matter what others think about you ~ they don't know you. Who cares what they think? The important thing is what YOU think about you. Do you love yourself? Do you think that you're worthy of loving? Do you think you're attractive? Do you think that you're smart? WE have to believe those answers to be "YES." If we don't believe those things, then we're in trouble. Our self-esteem is important. If we have low self-esteem, then maybe we need to talk to someone, because someone must have MADE us have low self-esteem. We have to learn how to raise it.
Sure we want people to like us, and in that way we care what people think. But if we are just ourselves and are pleasant then people can't help but like us.  We shouldn't have to put on an 'act' in order for people to care. Some of us are afraid alot - that's when we should talk to a professional and find out why we're afraid. With help, we can learn NOT to be so afraid all the time.
You wouldn't want to forget who you are now. You are a unique person ~ there is no one else on earth just like YOU. It just takes a little time and a little fine tuning to become unafraid and to not care with people think. When you get there, you're free as a bird!! God bless and take care of YOU. Hugs, Lee
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