I bet you do want to throw up ! I would want to as well

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I was on the receiving end of similar treatment with my son but without him being given the right help. He sounds like he is in the right place hun he really does. As for the breakdowns at least they are seeing just what he and the rest of the family have to cope with so can really direct the help to where it is needed.
I bet he enjoyed the Kentucky Fried Chicken ! I love it ! Tell him you know someone whos nearest one or Pizza Hut or Mcdonalds is over a 130 miles away ! So see how envious I am ! lol
Give him a big hug from everyone here make sure its a great big one and tell him lots of people are thinking/praying for him and all his family.