Lost in the Mirror is the only book I have ever read in my lifetime that speaks my language, the language of the borderline, as it was wrote to reach out to the way we see the world. Also try "New Hope for Borderline Personality Disorder" and go to Amazon.com or barnesandnoble.com and do a search using the word Narcisism I remember there ARE more I just can't think of them now. What I liked most about Lost In The Mirror was the way he describes floating through space without any sense of up or down, destination or origin.