I know this is not the norm, but me and T have a very intimate relationship, She asked me once to help her with putting songs on her ipod, so i said sure, i took it home with the cds she gave me ( which was like 500 songs, so it took me forever) so whenever she needs more songs on her ipod ( she uses it for work) she asks me. So when I drop it off to her, sometimes we meet at the beach, or at her house and we play with her dogs, ( me and my 10 year old that thinks of my t like an aunt) we've gone for walks together, last night i dropped off her ipod and she had dessert for my daughter ( she seems to enjoy loading her up on sugar and then sending her home) and she showed my daughter the rest of her house, and we went outside to play with her dogs,. I love having this kind of relationship with her and realize most people would love to have the same. She is going to take me and my daughter out for lunch for me helping her out with her ipod. Ju ( my daughter) cant wait, she loves spending time with her. Ju told her she wants to go to group therapy, t doesnt have group therapy but she does do weekly breathing sesssions, she taught Ju how to breath and now she wants to go to the sessions. i breath with t every week so im not thrilled about going but ill give it a try. anyhow, im just rambling. Im just happy to have this kind of relationship with her, and felt the need to share.
Beth