i went to my daughter's house today. my GD is too sick and we did not go to commissary. i made her, daughter, read what Pet linked me to in here. she almost passed out. she started crying and apologizing and then said it fit her to a T also. it was a very, very emotional day. we yelled and cried and tried to clear the air..as much as two crazy people can. one ex-heroin addict and one bipolarbearian nut...in a house together for 7 hours...trying to work things out. she is going to an NA meeting this week and i am continuging to go to the Al-Anon group that i've always gone to. and i'm still seeing my Pdoc. he actually is my T now. then we cried and cried about Josh being in Iraq. he is on another "mission".......can we not end this frigging war and bring everyone home???????????? i digress. xoxox pat