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Old Mar 31, 2011, 04:57 PM
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Originally Posted by peaches100 View Post
The only time i usually feel the emotions is when my t says or does something that triggers me. Then, i feel the emotions. But those emotions don't feel like they are related to mom. Am I making sense?
It may be that you're experiencing transference. I know people talk a lot about that here but most of the threads have been about erotic (romantic) transference. It's a powerful way to work through issues. I know I have had some emotions towards T and although I suspected they were transference, I allowed myself to fully experience them so that we both could recognize more easily my issues.

The following is an article that explains it more fully:

http://www.myshrink.com/counseling-theory.php?t_id=18