I keep coming and reading the new replies, sorry to say I have no input to give. But my not-just-friendly feelings for a mutual friend of my husband and mine keeps popping up. More often and more forceful recently, that is why I keep coming back to this thread. Hoping to find advice that would apply to me, I guess...and seeing how things went for another that took things further than I have. I hope you find resolution, Jen, in this matter.