Welcome vickielholt!
I am diagnosed with DD-NOS and have parts, although I do not lose time. I have 2 children, 15 and 17. I believe parenting can be a challenge, but also that my kids have grown up with a mother that is very attuned to their needs and feelings. I have a hard time with boundaries, and yes, my kids have used my issues to their advantage, parts of me can be talked into things that a "real mom" might not allow. I know it has been hard for them, as well as confusing and scary. I have been hospitalized many times. I love my kids very much and they are the reason that I am still around. I have found, especially as they got older, that being open and honest has been beneficial. I would suggest a book called "My Mom Is Different", you can find it online at sidran.org (under resources maybe?). It is really good at explaining DID, PTSD in an manner appropriate for children. It sure made me feel better about being different!

This site has been invaluable to me, the hosted chats have very compassionate and understanding peers who have helped me through some of my difficult times. I hope you find the same kind of help and comfort.