Pat,

First I want to say I understand why you are hurt and feel you are justified in those feelings. I am really sorry.

I also think that you should take his call, see what he has to say. Perhaps hearing what he has to say could ease your hurt a bit.

Pat, I also want to say that I have always admired your honesty in your posts. I like the foward, straight to the point approach. I think that perhaps you should be this way with him as well. I understand your hesitance to do so but I think getting your feelings out will benefit you greatly.

((((((((((((((((((Pat)))))))))))))))))

I am so sorry that you are hurting right now. I am here for you.

Huggles,

Jen