wow i am really glad it worked out for you, it must have been very painful to have had that comfort removed.

Reading your post did make me feel a bit sad as I have never had any physical contact with my T except when I met her for the first time a few years ago and she shook my hand to say hello. I seen her or about 7 monhs then but the organisation she worked for only offered short term help. There was a 2-3 year gap before I started seeing her again just over a year ago and there has been no physical contact at all - which makes me sad but i know she thinks it breaks boundaries and may make the ending harder, which is probably true. Its just sad sometimes as I really need a hug.

xxxxx