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Old Apr 01, 2011, 06:52 AM
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tree remember your husband being mad at you just isnt the end of the world and he loves you i know it may feel like the end of the world to every part of your being but in time you will see it isnt your husband will come home from work and hopefully he will have calmed down and you guys can talk.let him know it was a misunderstanding and you were still assleep.even if he is still angry he will eventually get over it and you will have survived it.he loves you.
people get angry,people are messy.we have no controle over there emotions.only how we respond to them.remember two people are involved in this and he also has a part.these are his feelings and is allowed to have them as scary as it is for you.this doesnt mean he doesnt love you ,wants to hurt you,or anything.he maybe was having a grumpy morning himself and was overreacting to a simple comment.he gets to overreact also.not fun it's messy and scary for you i know but i know you can make it through it also.it is just a really rough moment
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