Treehouse, it really isn't you. It's not that you can't do relationships. You just have to accept that sometimes people act mean or inconsiderate. What your husband did was not the most sympathetic and considerate things to do, to say the least, and there's no need for YOU to apologise to him. It is probably the other way around anyway, but the main thing is that you keep the lines of communication open. I guess he must have been tired and stressed having to get up that early and didn't act in the most friendly and kind way that morning. Sleep deprivation makes everyone selfish. But don't blame yourself for this incident. I hope you can resolve it soon.