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Originally Posted by onlymedid
Yeah, I think I am going to tell her. I have never felt this from her so it's new to me. I am nervous about telling her. I have never had any negative emotions towards her in all of the 3 years I have seen her. Oh boy, this is so new and so scary.
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I have allowed myself to feel the negative feelings towards my T. I understand the concept of transference and I knew that my feelings were probably that. And I knew that it's possible to work out some of my issues through my negative feelings toward T. So, I've been able to 'lash out' at her knowing that she understood and could help me process it. It worked perfectly for me and it feels good to be able to be totally honest with her. Scary, yes but liberating also. It helps to trust T completely.