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Originally Posted by sittingatwatersedge
DG I am sad reading what you posted too. Have you asked? I didn't for years and when I did, she was OK with it.
Sometimes the T would be OK with a side hug? or a pat on the arm? if you could talk to her about it (I know it's hard) maybe the two of you could agree on something.  |
aw thanks hun
I'm too scared to ask. she knows I wish she was my mum and that I feel attached to her and I think she would be afraid to hug me or whatever incase it made that worse really. Actually I am just remembering how a few months ago we did discuss something about wanting a hug and she said something like " you wouldnt want your therapist to hug you though would you?" and I said "yes" - but it didnt make any difference - she said something about how it just would increase dependancy and attachment ...I feel like crying as I type that because in my head all I can think of is that i'm not allowed to need anyone.
