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Originally Posted by moonlightgirl
I feel that if i ever tell anything to my parents they will find a way to blame me. I cant stand that. Im almost 16 and they think I "rebel" all the time. I dont. I cannot have a normal conversation with them without fighting. I have trust issues and its sad that I cant even trust the people who have taken care of me because they dont listen to me. I dont think they have ever put themselves in my shoes and just supported me. And because I get so angry at them they get mad at me if I show my anger so I have to bottle up everything and then I just explode and to relieve the pain I have to hit things, myself or injure myself in anyway. I dont know what to do. HELP ME! PLEASE!
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I think most of us go through this with our parents to some extent. I guess the generation gap is to blame. Some are bigger than others. my parents had me when they were 39 (I'm 36 now).
I know you are just a teen but maybe you should seek professional help for yourself even if you parents don't want to participate. It could be a battle getting them to pay for therapy though, so seek out free options like a school counselor.
But you do deserve to be understood and supported. Ya I been through that with my parents where they want to rationalize a situation instead of just accepting that I am feeling bad and that all that counts is that I need to be soothed.