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Originally Posted by Dionysian
What i dont feel comfortable with is, how can i lead a healthy social life, or trust that i am; if i can not be subjective. I hope someone understands what i am tring to say. I have no shame, i have no secrets. Yet vanity is a prime variable in living a healthy social life. is this going to become a parasite later in life? or is it okay to be comfortable with being mentaly self-sufficient? ...like i said, i am by no doubt a misanthrope. which normaly entails anxiety, panic, and obsessivness. Which is the exact oppiset of who i am. Where's it coming from? And why is it beging to rule my life?
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You got me there. my social life is the very thing that stumbles me the most. I find that it is the hardest thing to do is to be subjective about one's self. Being metally self -sufficient sounds like something to strive for and not something to worry about. perhaps it is the anxiety and obsessive feelings you normally have are effecting the way you see this situation.
Ultimately, I say be yourself. You seem to be a fairly confident person in most situations and you should apply that confidence in this situation.
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