I once said something to T about being narcissistic, and he said "You are NOT narcissistic, far from it" and I pointed to the door and said "don't you think it takes a little bit of narcissism just to walk through that door?" and I could see him sort of do this in his head. lol

the thing is, I think we're taught that it's "bad" to think of ourselves, to take care of ourselves, to like ourselves. And look where that gets us.

I just read a quote from Elanor Roosevelt this morning...Friendship with oneself is very important because without it one cannot be friends with anyone else in the world.
--Eleanor Roosevelt

I don't think she was narcissistic, but I do think she was very, very smart