The reason I don't support the door jam is because at some point I will go overboard. If I start at all I go overboard. Pretty soon I'd be setting little alarms and booby traps on the windows. Buying weapons. And eventually it would get to the point where I felt I had to stay in my apartment to protect myself and my home and I wouldn't allow anyone inside. I already don't allow anyone inside. Not my family, not my friends. But I at least leave the apartment. If I got a door jam. It would be over, my hypervigilence would hit the roof. After I brought up this point, He agreed.