Depends on the psychiatrist, sadly.

I'm sorry you're turned off by her treatment of you. Doctors are specialists, psychiatrists are specialized in mental illness/mental health. If they only do meds, then they're time-crunched and have limited time to get to the root of your issues that bring you to them, so they can prescribe you meds and see how things are working out.

Also, first sessions are always more formal than normal.