both Sleeps . And we do go to a marraige therapist. In fact we go this Wednesday afternoon. He doesnt care about anything but his side of it anymore. And at this point. I feel like just giving up on it all. Let him have his way. Just so he is happy. I dont have anymore gumtion to fight with anyways. Thanks for trying though. It was stupid for me to have said anything.

Hugz~
Bethy