Learning1 - I agree I wouldnt really want my T to be my friend..although for me i wish she was my Mother which also isnt a very healthy want lol

Liam - I can fully understand... although im not sure i you could have stopped the attachment even if you wanted to.. i tried very hard and failed.

Nannypat - my heart breaks for you that sounds awful - i know what its like to loose your support without warning but to have seen this person for so many years and then be without them sounds so painful

Elliemay, it sounds like you have become a very strong person and have gained a lot from therapy.. I hope you can be an inspiration for us all!