greatestdogmom, have you talked to someone about your relationship with your husband? He was saying and doing some pretty hurtful and yes, abusive things in your story. Does he often make you feel bad about yourself or do you feel unsafe at times?

I'm not assuming anything, I just think it would be a great idea to talk to a therapist about it.

I'm glad you're here and let us know how things are going, k?

Cyran0