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Originally Posted by Suratji
I don't think the 'reality' of the relationship bothers me. Maybe because it's been only 3 1/2 months since I started.. I'm quite attached to my weekly sessions but I don't think I'm attached to T. I like that I don't know much about her and I like that she can focus on me whereas my other relationships are different. It's like going to the dentist or the doctor and they're there to help. I don't need to have a more expanded relationship with my dentist.
And reading about the difficulties that so many people have getting attached to T makes me want to be sure that I avoid having that happen to me. Way too painful
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Ditto. That's why I'm more than happy with the boundaries in the relationship with T. (I guess my social phobia makes it all easier in this case, lol)