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Old Apr 03, 2011, 12:22 AM
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Originally Posted by Suratji View Post
I don't think the 'reality' of the relationship bothers me. Maybe because it's been only 3 1/2 months since I started.. I'm quite attached to my weekly sessions but I don't think I'm attached to T. I like that I don't know much about her and I like that she can focus on me whereas my other relationships are different. It's like going to the dentist or the doctor and they're there to help. I don't need to have a more expanded relationship with my dentist.

And reading about the difficulties that so many people have getting attached to T makes me want to be sure that I avoid having that happen to me. Way too painful
Ditto. That's why I'm more than happy with the boundaries in the relationship with T. (I guess my social phobia makes it all easier in this case, lol)
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