i'm sorry that he doesn't understand you... do you have a therapist? maybe you could bring him sometime so maybe he can get some kind of advice and a different perspective on your depression. i know exactly what you're feeling, i'm only 16 and i've cried because i didnt want to go to school. its crazy what depression can do for you. maybe make a deal that you can have a few days off to just stay in bed that you can use when you want. and maybe suggest that he doesnt dump cold water on you...that doesnt seem like a good reason to get out of bed...you need motivation, that's all. maybe he can provide that. Best of luck, message me if you need anything.