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Old Jan 17, 2006, 05:40 AM
CatWhispers CatWhispers is offline
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jmo531 said:I know, I know, I just moved here in August and I moved 1600 miles from my home and I am a %#@&#! up and should have thought about this before moving. Yeah, I know all that. Beleive me, this has been playing over and over again in my mind and I have come to the conclusion, that no matter where I run, I am always there.

Moving here to me was not a mistake but an experience. I love the weather, and the city is absolutly breath taking. It just isnt home. It just isnt home.


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Focus on the latter. If you know it wasn't a mistake, then why beat yourself up and call yourself an idiot.

Some might see it as being someone who is adventurous, and admire the courage it takes to make a change like that.

And also admire the courage it takes to realize it was not the right thing, and instead of just being miserable, going back and starting again.

Someone said, "there's no place like home." But if you remember, Glenda told her she had the power to get home all the time. She had to go through the experience just to learn it.

And if anyone had called Dorothy an idiot, and if she had never done what she did to end up back home (with a better appreciation of it) we wouldn't have that wonderful story and movie that gives so much joy.

I'm one of the ones who admires you taking that chance. I wish I had the guts to do it myself.

I made a change like that, and ended up in a horrible place, and have not had the strength, courage or money to get out. You should be applauded!