(((((((((Pallycoo)))))))You hurt,are afraid,are just a human trying to save something she loves.I would strongly discourage you ,of course,from ever doing this again...because it could have ended up that you'd been hurt from what you found.Well...you now see the outcome.I certainly hope that the outcome on this serves to bring you both to a healing and reconciliation...and a prompt to really begin to talk.What else can anyone say?I see you hurt...I am sorry darling....(((((Huggs you)))))).....Wolf