Ah.. there's something my mom told me that helped me decide what was best for me and him.. I remembered it when I saw this " I talked to my therapist and it was fine. She explained to me that there are times when she sees I "Feel bad" in the relationship, and people shouldn't feel bad in their relationships. When I see her again, I am going to talk to her more about this."
My mom says that when in a relationship, especially when in a so recent one, as I had (1 yrs and 3 months), one must feel 99,9% of the time happy and fairy tale happy, because if we do not then we never will. I know it sounds very extreme but I admit that I start to see what she meant. If it makes you feel bad, even if he's almost perfect, maybe you should think if you should stay.
Maybe it's your depression talking, maybe not...
Maybe there're some issues between you two that make you doubt?
Hope it works out for the best!!
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