Oh, Jarebear! I full well understand your predicament! Remember, you, as the patient, have the final say on what happens in your therapy. So if you're against telling your parents now, you must tell that to your T and insist that your desires take precedence. When, ultimately, you do inform your parents you have two choices. First, you can do it yourself. Second, you can have your T do it in your presence so that you can disagree if something T says doesn't sound right to you.

So when you ask about what you can do, just think about it this way: Your T can NOT force you to tell your parents without your permission. And your T CANNOT tell your parent without your prior permission! So things aren't quite as bad as you think they are. The best of luck to you, Jarebear! Take care.