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Originally Posted by purple_fins
It sucks that you are so hurt. 
one thing I was wondering...... are you a guy, by any chance? ....
I've been noticing in this world that generally when a guy -- boy or man-- gets hurt they tend to want to hurt someone back(and not usually the one that hurt them-- it's often an innocent bystander that had nothing to do with their being hurt)....
and generally when a woman has been hurt ... she usually turns the hurt onto herself..... |
It sounds a little like a common habit, don't you think?
I'm a guy and I would never do that stuff. I would actually be the happiest man on the world if a girl ever become attached to me like that... last thing on my mind would be to hurt or such. I'd rather hurt myself before.
(I don't want to sound aggressive at all, just want to give out my perspective
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